26 September 2026 · 7 min read · Parda team
Shadishuda Logon Ke Liye Dating App: Kya Hai, Kaise Chunein
Shadishuda logon ke liye dating app kya hota hai, kya ye legal hai, sahi app kaise chunein (number, photo, verification, data) aur kin khatron se bachein.
"Married logon ke liye dating app" search karne wale zyadatar log do sawaal lekar aate hain: ye cheez hoti kya hai, aur isme khatra kitna hai. Ye article dono ka seedha jawab hai. Affair ke baare mein general baat, log kyun karte hain aur shaadi par kya asar hota hai, wo humne Shadi ke baad affair: sach kya hai mein likhi hai. Yahan sirf apps ki baat hogi.
Extramarital dating app kya hai?
Ye aise platform hain jo khaas taur par un logon ke liye bane hain jo shaadishuda hain (ya relationship mein hain) aur kisi aur se milna ya baat karna chahte hain. Normal dating app par zyadatar single log hote hain aur wahan "married hoon" likhna awkward hota hai. Vivahit logon ke liye bane app mein ye baat pehle se maan li jaati hai, isliye focus discretion par hota hai: naam chhupana, photo chhupana, number na dena.
Is category ka sabse jaana-maana naam Gleeden hai, jo 2009 mein France mein shuru hua aur Blackdivine Group ka hai (Global Dating Insights). India ke user numbers jo news mein aate hain, wo company ke apne bataye hue hain, independent audit ke nahi. Baaki options ki factual tulna humne alternatives page par ki hai.
Kya ye legal hai?
Haan. India mein dating app chalana ya use karna koi jurm nahi hai, aur 2018 ke Joseph Shine v. Union of India faisle ke baad adultery bhi crime nahi hai. Lekin adultery aaj bhi divorce ka ground hai. App ko IT Rules 2021 aur DPDP Act 2023 ke niyam maanne padte hain, jaise Grievance Officer rakhna aur aapka data surakshit rakhna. Poori detail: Are dating apps legal in India?
Ek baat dhyan dene layak hai: 9 April 2026 ko NHRC ne Gleeden ko lekar MeitY ko notice bheja. Shikayat mein fake identity, aurton ke shoshan aur under-18 users tak pahunch ki chinta uthayi gayi thi (Global Dating Insights). Notice ban nahi hota. Lekin ye dikhata hai ki is category mein regulator ka dhyaan kin cheezon par hai.
Sahi app kaise chunein: 6 point checklist
Kisi bhi app par sign up karne se pehle ye dekhiye. Ye Parda par bhi lagu hota hai, aur kisi bhi doosre app par bhi.
- Free hai ya paid? Paid hone mein koi burai nahi, lekin do baatein dekhiye: card statement par kya naam aayega, aur kya baat karne ke liye har message par credit lagta hai. Credit wala model aapko lambi baat karte rehne ke liye push karta hai. Kisi bhi app ki keemat uske official page par hi check karein.
- Number share hota hai ya nahi? Sabse bada khatra yahi hai. Jo app shuru mein hi WhatsApp number maangne deta hai, wahan blackmail ka rasta khula hai. Achha app number, email aur handle messages se hata deta hai.
- Photo masking. Kya aapki photo har kisi ko dikhti hai, ya sirf match hone ke baad? Screenshot lekar blackmail karne wale sabse pehle photo hi uthate hain.
- Verification. Kya app sirf email se account bana deta hai, ya real selfie aur ID check karta hai? Misaal ke liye, Tinder ne October 2025 mein India ke naye users ke liye video selfie wala "Face Check" zaroori kiya (Global Dating Insights). Yaad rakhiye: koi bhi verification ye nahi batata ki saamne wala insaan achha hai ya bura.
- Data deletion. Account delete karne par data sach mein hat-ta hai? Privacy policy mein ye likha hona chahiye. DPDP Act ke tehat aap apna data mitaane ki maang kar sakte hain.
- Grievance Officer. Kya app ne shikayat ke liye kisi officer ka naam aur contact diya hai? IT Rules 2021 ke hisaab se ye zaroori hai.
Khatre jo log nazarandaaz karte hain
- Blackmail aur sextortion. Pehle dosti, phir video call ya photo, phir paison ki maang. Paise dene se maang band nahi hoti. Kya karna hai: dating app blackmail ho to kya karein.
- Fake profile. Bahut jaldi pyaar, bahut jaldi "WhatsApp par aao", aur phir koi emergency jismein paise chahiye. Ye pattern pehchaniye.
- Data breach. 2015 mein Ashley Madison ka data leak hua tha, aur us se seekh ye hai ki app par jitna kam asli data doge, utna kam khoyoge. Detail: Ashley Madison India review.
- Apne hi phone se pakde jaana. Notification, shared Google account, card statement. Ye sabse aam wajah hai.
- 18 saal se kam umar. Agar kisi profile par zara bhi shak ho ki wo 18 se kam hai, baat wahin band kijiye aur report kijiye.
Parda kya hai (sirf facts)
Parda shaadishuda, 18+ logon ke liye ek web app hai jo phone ke browser mein chalta hai. Ye free hai: koi plan nahi, koi paid credit nahi, card nahi maanga jaata. Roz ke limited points spam rokne ke liye hain, unhe khareeda nahi ja sakta. Baat tabhi shuru hoti hai jab dono ne ek doosre ko like kiya ho. Messages se number, email aur handle hata diye jaate hain, asli naam nahi dikhta, aur photo match hone tak masked rehti hai. Har profile ka ek insaan government photo ID aur live selfie se check karta hai; ye check umar aur pehchaan confirm karta hai, marital status, criminal record ya vyavhaar nahi. AI chat companions bhi hain, jin par saaf "AI" likha hota hai aur unhe member nahi gina jaata. Detail: verification kaise hota hai.
Ye kanooni salah nahi hai. Divorce, maintenance ya custody ka sawaal ho to kisi family lawyer se baat kijiye.
Blackmail ya fraud ho to: Cybercrime helpline 1930, cybercrime.gov.in. Emergency: 112. Mansik pareshani mein Tele-MANAS, free, 24 ghante: 14416.
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